Is a Libra in Love With You? How To Make a Libra Fall For You
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Are the wedding bells already ringing? When you fall in love with a Venus-ruled Libra, you may immediately have visions of bonding, marriage, and more dancing before your eyes. After all, it is almost impossible to resist this zodiac sign! Even if you’re in love, how do you know for sure if a Libra is in love with you too?
Who is Libra? Ruled by Venus – the planet of love, beauty and friendship – Libra is the cardinal air sign unafraid of pioneering relationships and commitments. Like a mirror, Libra often instinctively matches the other. This also applies to someone whose Sun, Moon, Ascendant, Mercury or Venus signs are in Libra. Being a die-hard romantic, Libra means they are made to seek out company and will always be able to attract a partner. Whether this pal lives up to her high standards, however, is another story!
“Libras are the archetypal romantics of the zodiac, and their search for companionship drives them at every turn,” says Desiree Roby Antila, professional astrologer and author of Sun characters in love. Antila refers to Libra as “an iron fist in a velvet glove” due to Libra’s friendly but confident approach.
Known as a mediator, Libra strives for balance by being a peaceful, harmless person who is incredibly easy to relate to. But Libra expects those efforts to be reciprocated. “Don’t forget that Libra expects to become the best it can be. Not because they’re selfish, but because it’s fair,” notes Kasandra Martinez, astrologer and founder of Cosmic Kat.
How to attract a scale
Most people can’t help but be attracted to a Libra, but getting a Libra to *actually* be like you might take a little more effort! Libra tends to fall easily, but these crushes are shockingly flat. Although romantic, Libra doesn’t fall in love with anyone.
“It’s hard to say where the line is with Libra because they won’t tell you — they don’t even know themselves. It has to feel right and natural, not forced and full of work,” Antila muses. While Antila recommends keeping some of your initial interest in check, Martinez suggests approaching Libra as a level-headed, open-minded person.
What does Libra need in love?
When a Libra falls head over heels in love with someone, they will prioritize their peace first. Ideally, Libra doesn’t disturb the gentle flow of their lives, so their partner needs to be in harmony.
“Libras avoid conflict in a relationship like the plague. It’s not so much that they hate arguing — let’s face it, nobody loves to discuss both sides of a debate like a Libra. It’s just that [Libra] can’t handle the hurt feelings and the drama,” advises Martinez. Objective mediation will maintain some of the desired peace in your relationship with Libra.
How to hold a scale
How to keep this hesitant but seductive zodiac sign safe? Yes, Libra *loves* the idea of love and commitment! However, Libra can be moved out of a relationship just as easily as into one. The best way to balance the scales is to adjust your efforts. Libras constantly make their partner feel comforted, loved and seen. If you want to show Libra that you care about them as much as they care about you, return their affirmative words, physical touches, caring gestures, and more!
Signs that a Libra is in love with you
You’ll know if you’ve won a Libra’s heart when they show genuine signs that they feel strongly about you. Libra can be a notoriously indecisive zodiac sign, but Libra won’t wait a second longer if that’s you.
“Libras always weigh their decisions a long time, so if you’re chosen at random, [then] You should feel flattered,” advises Antila. Likewise, Martinez notes that Libras only spend a lot of time with someone they love. “Libras often have a lot of friends and social commitments. So if you consistently make it to the top of their priority list, they’re interested!” explains Martinez. You can guarantee that Libra will only have eyes for you if Libra keeps putting you first!
Which zodiac signs are compatible with Libra?
Air signs probably fit best! If a Libra chooses another Libra, then this pairing will be very happy to use “we”. After all, they will likely feel inseparable from you and want everything with their special someone by their side. However, you should watch out for codependency. Luckily, Aquarius can bring independence and friendship to a romantic relationship. However, Libra will require a little more affection, which could be a challenge given that Aquarius can be a bit aloof. If Libra is looking for someone to stay in constant touch with, Gemini is the sign to be with! But Gemini and Libra need to work through potential bonding issues as Libra can be indecisive and Gemini can be fickle.
Fire signs will get the passion going! Opposites attract when Libra meets Aries. “Both zodiac signs are initially captured by the imagination of the other. [But] The fantasy ends when Libra finds itself on the wrong side of the Aries temperament, and Aries realizes that the hunt is as exciting as this relationship is going to be,” warns Martinez. Leo is another great option! Leo’s bold confidence would attract Libra like a moth to a flame. “When they combine their powers, Leo and Libra can achieve almost anything in terms of a successful love affair [to] Wedding,” enthuses Antila. But if Libra needs a more spontaneous match, then Sagittarius is it! Sagittarius’ thirst for adventure can run far and wide, so Libra needs to make DTR before Sagittarius explores new options.
Normally, earth signs are not easy games for Libra. Capricorn and Libra can be a powerful couple as Capricorn is ready to build a life with Libra. Unfortunately, Capricorn’s overly serious nature could be off-putting. Fortunately, Taurus could be an excellent match! Both Taurus and Libra desire commitment, but Taurus might be more committed initially, while Libra might need more time to think about it. Virgo is another strong contender. Libra can offer Virgo a mindful intellect while Virgo is actively working on their relationship. “However, Virgo must make an effort to tell their Libra what they need and work on becoming comfortable with a direct approach, even if it’s not their preferred method,” warns Antila.
Though Libra can please anyone, Air and Fire signs are unforgettable matches, while Earth and Water signs require more work than expected.
Water signs could be challenging partners. Still, Martinez is an optimist when it comes to Cancer and Libra. According to Martinez, “Cancer creates a safe space for Libra to open up, and Libra helps Cancer see that true love is real.” In the meantime, Scorpio could be a risk worth taking to become when Libra is ready for intense sensual and psychological intimacy. But Libra and Scorpio can get into trouble if they can’t find the balance to avoid entanglements. Finally, Pisces could be a pretty ideal match as this fantastic sign of Libra can bring fairytale love! But with Pisces it is necessary to set limits.
If you are lucky enough to love and be loved by a Libra, then you can count on a fair, beautiful and harmonious relationship with them!