How To Start a 5 Year Plan [Video]
From Beleaf In Paternity
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I love these types of questions and they get asked so often to @abdulfoster because he sparked this answer. If you have any questions you want me to answer, click our email [email protected]
Once again the steps are:
1. Realize what your wife demands / put the ego aside
2. Seek accountability/ create visions
3. Strategize
4. Inform/communicate wife
5. Set goals
6. Keep head down and perform
7. Find mentorship
Transcript provided by YouTube:
ok ok welcome black i don’t know who
that’s for it, but it will help
Someone meets me and asks me a
question i was like dang man thats a
Really good question and I have to
react to that much with you all
I know what I’m saying, so I’ll do it
Read this question, but first I want
kudos to this guy for asking that in the first place
question because many of you have
problems, but you don’t know them
Solutions to your problems now that is
normal, but some people don’t even know it
the questions to be asked and this gentleman
here at least knows the question
to ask, okay, so let’s go ahead and
come in real quick, he said long
Shots you see this, but with regards
to your post about mentioning your wife
she wouldn’t follow you without you
have a plan, there is a video
about how my wife would not submit
for me, unless I had a five-year plan
that’s not what happened, but that’s who
narrative that people publish
so he’s basically asking me about a
man who want to do the same what steps
did you take to move
Direction to have a plan and without
give too much away as to what that plan was
As now I think what the plan was like
as I have the feeling that this is very complex
answer, so I’ll just stick with that
Steps okay, first thing I had to do
was to recognize what my wife asked me
I had to put my ego aside and say
Okay, she says what’s your five years
plan i said i dont know she said ok i
entrust my family and my future to you
and you didn’t plan five years
old me, that would have really crushed me
average man crushing an average man
You can’t take that kind of
Assertiveness right um but for me it was me
to understand that my wife heard me
complaining about my past jobs
heard me say I’m not really excited
I heard about the rapping at this point
said all this other stuff and it was her
like okay bro what is the plan right and
I’m like oh my god right
got me to know
Oh, she says she wants to follow
she just needs to know that i know where
where I’m taking us and so on
The first step was to move my ego
aside and say okay that’s mine
Wife asks me the second thing I’ve done
I’ve been looking for accountability, now this is it
Super important when you don’t have anyone
in your life you can ask hard
Questions you need to get these people
in your life as soon as possible because it will change
all about what is happening in
Your life uh that person on my homie
Scotty who has a church down in San
diego has now asked me difficult questions he
said uh uh what’s your five year plan i
said I don’t know he said what was yours
10 year plan I said I don’t know he said
What’s your 15 year plan, I said
I know I don’t want to rap anymore
right and that’s how he helped me figure it out
Help me imagine where I wanted to be
which is super important, so we made some
Things right, we said okay, what are you doing
want to do as you want to be
does it, who do you know that exists or
who ever existed is in that position
that you want to be right
potential mentors I liked him
visualize where I wanted that to be
was step two step three is a strategy
Now I happen to have one of the biggest
Folks, Scotty James is the homie
the one who tells me how to ask me
the difficult questions and he helps me
strategize he said okay now look that is
where do you want to be now where do you want to be
want as you want to achieve
these people what formatted and platform
you will use to achieve this
people and tell people how great it is
Being a father and I really had to think
about it and that’s how we evolved
a right plan, a right strategy, that was
Step three step four went back and
Tell my wife: Hey, here’s the plan
and instead of her going yay
I’m so proud of you, I knew you could do it
I’m so excited you even took these
Step to my wife being exactly like that
because I’m glad she did because
Yes, she had answered her question, but
Having a plan isn’t necessarily that
Overall goal is to achieve the goal
where I want to be right and they do
said okay she accepted the plan she
didn’t agree with everything, but she was like
All right, cool, go ahead and do it
Her thing, so step four was informing mine
Ms step five is I had to set goals
The first goal was like damn, I want to score one
Thousand of five thousand subscribers up
youtube to january and it was a big goal
because I only had 900 at the time
And I was like I’d just step out
videos every week i will make a little bit
and that was like my goal, so I had it
Set goals and just keep your head
Bottom right is number six, keep your head
down and execute the plan in order
does not mean that you will be distracted
from other people doesn’t mean it’s you
others you don’t think you are in who you are
The comments section really tries to do it
Getting people to put you down with theirs
negative comments and like their words
You just focus on what you need
You are adamant about the plan right
so that’s step number six
Step number seven is to find a mentor
Eventually you will look up and
You are at your goals and you will
Realize oh my god I don’t have any
more goals after that, so you will
need a mentor to show you that somehow
are some of the blocks and things
come, you may not see
but these are coming, so that’s what I would do
many of you are now preparing for this
Guys want mentors without a plan
That is not the point here
if you if you don’t have a shop
walk up to someone and say hello
join me and they will be happy to look at you
where are we going where are you trying
to go and then they can decide I guess
can help you get there, or they can
Decide, brother, it’s not you, you don’t want it
Trust me you know what I mean and
So uh yeah I just hope this helps you
I know mean let me know if you want
to know the exact plan we have come up with
with for my my stuff uh in the comments
Section below, but I hope that was
valuable to you, I hope this helps
Someone out there is moving to the right
Welcome Black, thanks for
watch patek your life support network
popping see you see you next
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