How To Start a 5 Year Plan [Video]

From Beleaf In Paternity

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I love these types of questions and they get asked so often to @abdulfoster because he sparked this answer. If you have any questions you want me to answer, click our email [email protected]

Once again the steps are:

1. Realize what your wife demands / put the ego aside
2. Seek accountability/ create visions
3. Strategize
4. Inform/communicate wife
5. Set goals
6. Keep head down and perform
7. Find mentorship

Transcript provided by YouTube:

ok ok welcome black i don’t know who

that’s for it, but it will help

Someone meets me and asks me a

question i was like dang man thats a

Really good question and I have to

react to that much with you all

I know what I’m saying, so I’ll do it

Read this question, but first I want

kudos to this guy for asking that in the first place

question because many of you have

problems, but you don’t know them

Solutions to your problems now that is

normal, but some people don’t even know it

the questions to be asked and this gentleman

here at least knows the question

to ask, okay, so let’s go ahead and

come in real quick, he said long

Shots you see this, but with regards

to your post about mentioning your wife

she wouldn’t follow you without you

have a plan, there is a video

about how my wife would not submit

for me, unless I had a five-year plan

that’s not what happened, but that’s who

narrative that people publish

so he’s basically asking me about a

man who want to do the same what steps

did you take to move

Direction to have a plan and without

give too much away as to what that plan was

As now I think what the plan was like

as I have the feeling that this is very complex

answer, so I’ll just stick with that

Steps okay, first thing I had to do

was to recognize what my wife asked me

I had to put my ego aside and say

Okay, she says what’s your five years

plan i said i dont know she said ok i

entrust my family and my future to you

and you didn’t plan five years

old me, that would have really crushed me

average man crushing an average man

You can’t take that kind of

Assertiveness right um but for me it was me

to understand that my wife heard me

complaining about my past jobs

heard me say I’m not really excited

I heard about the rapping at this point

said all this other stuff and it was her

like okay bro what is the plan right and

I’m like oh my god right

got me to know

Oh, she says she wants to follow

she just needs to know that i know where

where I’m taking us and so on

The first step was to move my ego

aside and say okay that’s mine

Wife asks me the second thing I’ve done

I’ve been looking for accountability, now this is it

Super important when you don’t have anyone

in your life you can ask hard

Questions you need to get these people

in your life as soon as possible because it will change

all about what is happening in

Your life uh that person on my homie

Scotty who has a church down in San

diego has now asked me difficult questions he

said uh uh what’s your five year plan i

said I don’t know he said what was yours

10 year plan I said I don’t know he said

What’s your 15 year plan, I said

I know I don’t want to rap anymore

right and that’s how he helped me figure it out

Help me imagine where I wanted to be

which is super important, so we made some

Things right, we said okay, what are you doing

want to do as you want to be

does it, who do you know that exists or

who ever existed is in that position

that you want to be right

potential mentors I liked him

visualize where I wanted that to be

was step two step three is a strategy

Now I happen to have one of the biggest

Folks, Scotty James is the homie

the one who tells me how to ask me

the difficult questions and he helps me

strategize he said okay now look that is

where do you want to be now where do you want to be

want as you want to achieve

these people what formatted and platform

you will use to achieve this

people and tell people how great it is

Being a father and I really had to think

about it and that’s how we evolved

a right plan, a right strategy, that was

Step three step four went back and

Tell my wife: Hey, here’s the plan

and instead of her going yay

I’m so proud of you, I knew you could do it

I’m so excited you even took these

Step to my wife being exactly like that

because I’m glad she did because

Yes, she had answered her question, but

Having a plan isn’t necessarily that

Overall goal is to achieve the goal

where I want to be right and they do

said okay she accepted the plan she

didn’t agree with everything, but she was like

All right, cool, go ahead and do it

Her thing, so step four was informing mine

Ms step five is I had to set goals

The first goal was like damn, I want to score one

Thousand of five thousand subscribers up

youtube to january and it was a big goal

because I only had 900 at the time

And I was like I’d just step out

videos every week i will make a little bit

and that was like my goal, so I had it

Set goals and just keep your head

Bottom right is number six, keep your head

down and execute the plan in order

does not mean that you will be distracted

from other people doesn’t mean it’s you

others you don’t think you are in who you are

The comments section really tries to do it

Getting people to put you down with theirs

negative comments and like their words

You just focus on what you need

You are adamant about the plan right

so that’s step number six

Step number seven is to find a mentor

Eventually you will look up and

You are at your goals and you will

Realize oh my god I don’t have any

more goals after that, so you will

need a mentor to show you that somehow

are some of the blocks and things

come, you may not see

but these are coming, so that’s what I would do

many of you are now preparing for this

Guys want mentors without a plan

That is not the point here

if you if you don’t have a shop

walk up to someone and say hello

join me and they will be happy to look at you

where are we going where are you trying

to go and then they can decide I guess

can help you get there, or they can

Decide, brother, it’s not you, you don’t want it

Trust me you know what I mean and

So uh yeah I just hope this helps you

I know mean let me know if you want

to know the exact plan we have come up with

with for my my stuff uh in the comments

Section below, but I hope that was

valuable to you, I hope this helps

Someone out there is moving to the right

Welcome Black, thanks for

watch patek your life support network

popping see you see you next

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